Catch 22

What do you do when the person you're most dependent upon emotionally is also your worst trigger?

What do you do when every good memory you have with your favorite person has been contaminated by fear?

What do you do when revisiting places you've gone with one of your closest friends is enough to trigger anxiety attacks?

What do you do? 

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